Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Do young kids DREAM? What do you they DREAM?!

Dream is a common phenomena, every human being hit upon it very often in their sleep mode. I don't know whether its just human being, because I never remember or don't recollect from any of my previous avatars in different life. So I can't comment on it

We dream about anything and everything while we are in deep snoozer. It even takes version like Day Dreaming, deep sleep dreaming, early morning dreams, midnight dreams and so on.

In the era of science marvels happening every day, scientists are still having hard time figuring out, why are we dreaming? Whats the actually chemical reaction which takes place while we dream?! There are whole lot of folks involved in researching for a laconic answer for these billion dollar questions.


Whatever they find, it would be interesting to know. But for now, I like to regard dreaming as another type of feeling which we experience in our motionless sleep state. Its the journey of mind to an unknown place portrayed as our current world which is hard to spell out. Most of all, it just vanishes from our memory when we wake up. Atleast for me, I have difficulty recollecting what exactly I dreamt off.

Everybody reacts to dreams in lot of different ways. Lots of factors plays important role for dreams. Mostly depends on the mindset we were when we go to sleep or something we happen to be thinking a lot about lately. Dream does takes different shapes and scenes as per the storyline which we build on the fly in the mind. It shows us the eupheumism to Heaven or Hell. It take us to fantasy world, traverse to past and back to the future. It us the ability to take us to a wild ride in just fraction of second as we stay asleep.

Dream is wierd thing. Its reasonable assumption to say we all Dream. But does babies or young Kids also dream while they sleep is yet another which I like to get answer?!

Obviously, they do which I think can be provef from my sons various reactions while he sleeps. But I couldn't imagine what in the world they dream about? They don't watch creepy stuff or they don't process difficult things in their mind. So what exactly they dream on?! I couldn't figure it out.

Dreams can be related easily to the action or process that happens in our mind. We react to the dream by showing sign like fall down or yelling at people appropriate to the scene when we having the dream. Similarly, taking my son as an example, he smiles a lot so cutely and at times wakes up in the middle crying out loud and sleep back again. What in the world he might be dreaming? What makes him to cry all of a sudden if he is not dreaming?


I don't see a definite answer for these questions like sublime one about Dreams. Do you guys think of any?

Monday, July 30, 2007

America's Coolest Top 30 Young Entrepreneurs (under 30)

Inc.com posted its celebrity list of TOP 30 Young Entrepreneurs who made impression before their 30's. I envy these guys. They made to the limelight and found place in the headlines when they are just budding in their career. Its big accomplishment for them in my view point.
Interesting aspect of all, they didn't even invent anything new or discover any new magic to change to the world which amazed me and at sametime made my eye sore. They just made big venture by analyzing their surroundings and found whats missing in it, to make a business out of it.

If you check out the list below,

http://www.inc.com/slideshow_INC/slideviewer.cgi?list=30under2007&refresh=15

You see one guy(BENJAMIN SANN) started a website to post parking lots information and rates in certain metro cities like Newyork. He slowly moved to provide options to even reserve the parking lots partnering with the parking companies. He is the 27th ranked on the list. Wow, a parking lot information can make a guy enterpreneur, thats pretty interesting is in it?!

I always wanted to make my mark as an entrepreneur but just couldn't get hold of the idea's and strategies to put together in place to make it happen. I am still working on it to do my best with my current small business, hoping to make to headlines atleast in the local newspaper.

Noticeably, 2 folks in the list are of Indian American origin. Raj Lahoti & Mangesh Hattikudur. Check out their profile which I got from Inc.com


Rank #9 - Raj Lahoti


Age: 25 Location: San Diego

2006 Revenue: $11.5 million

Employees: 15 Year
founded: 2003



After a few years dabbling in Internet domain acquisition and traffic brokering, Raj Lahoti set out to build up one of his brother's domains in order to provide meaningful content in an area that, well, generally lacks it. DMV.ORG, the "Online Unofficial Guide to the DMV," aggregates information from the (often dreaded) Department of Motor Vehicles in each state -- all in one place. Users can access information on everything from applying for a license to ordering a driving record, without the aggravation of standing in the DMV's endless lines.

Rank # 23 - Mangesh Hattikudur


Ages: both 28
Location: Birmingham, Ala.
Employees: 12
2006 Revenue: $1.7 million
Year founded: 2001




Mental Floss magazine offers a fun, irreverent look at knowledge and facts. As Pearson put it, "Our mission is to find anyway we can to blur the lines between education and entertainment." The founders started the venture at Duke University as a campus publication and quickly turned it into a national magazine. But they have pushed the brand further than the magazine -- producing books, board games, and soon a series of children's books.

Executive editor Mangesh Hattikudur, a cultural anthropology major, has roots reaching back to India, and in his first column he reminisces about the work of Indian writer Salman Rushdie.

I feel its nothing wrong in being jealous about these guys. They took risks and made their idea work to show the world anything can make you millions. I am going tune my brain to watch my surroundings closer to see whether I can get a hint for a great business idea.
**** - Some contents taken from Inc.com and other sites in net.

Tagore on Life's Essence - A Poem

I got this nice little forwarded poem from one of my friends mail list. I thought its worth thinking about some important aspects of our life like love, humility, helping others & forgiveness thru the wonderful poem from our Patriotic Poet Rabindranath Tagore.

Tagore on Life Essence

Go not to the temple to put flowers upon the feet of God,

First fill your own house with the Fragrance of love...


Go not to the temple to light candles before the altar of God,

First remove the darkness of sin from your heart...


Go not to the temple to bow down your head in prayer,

First learn to bow in humility before your fellowmen...


Go not to the temple to pray on bended knees,

First bend down to lift someone who is down-trodden. ..


Go not to the temple to ask for forgiveness for your sins,

First forgive from your heart those who have sinned against you ...

Don't you think we sometimes forget about this ingredients of life and seek them in a place instead of just inside us.






Friday, July 27, 2007

Your Firsts and Best's

We all have big store of our happy and unforgettable memories in tact within each of us. We cherish them going back in time taking a nostalgia trip whenever something reminds me of that precious moment. In that memory store, everyone obviously have sacred place for their firsts and best's in their life.

I was about to post this blog and Sulekha team announced a hot news to celebrate the Friendship Day. So I just made it up the game. Lets have fun again Tagging to share your firsts and Best's. Its will be fun to hear from all your guys and also a chance to travel back in time to bring memories live to share with your sulekha friends.

Here is my Firsts

Crush - My next door neighbor's grand daughter visits her grandma house every every holiday season. She is like around my age as of I know. I never talked to her but always had Crush on her.

Business - Earned my first penny buying & selling detergent soap when I was doing my 9th grade.

Bicycle - Got as a Gift from my Grandpa when I was like 14 or 15years old.

Motor Bike - Bought my first TVS Champ -out of my second salary which gave 35 km/litre in 1996.

Car - Purchased a used 1992 model Honda Accord within a month of landing in US for just $7500 in 1999.

House - Landed with my own dream own which is 2 Story in Houston, TX in 2004.

Kiss - Only after marriage :-)


My Best's

Best year so far - I have quite few good years in my list. I like to say its 2006 when I was blessed with a beautiful son.

Best Person I met - My Head of Dept, perfect gentleman. Been role model for me all along.

Best Days - My College days when I stayed in the hostel and enjoyed

Best Friend - A friend in need is a friend in deed. I know everyone will have endless list but lets shorten it to one. For me, its my friend from college who now lives in Florida, USA is a person who is been riding along with me in my roller coaster life ride.

Best Place visited - Niagara falls - I been there atleast 4-5 times in just 4 years of my stay in Boston. I love that place. Its one of the favorite honey moon spots.

Best Food - Sambhar & Vegetable Kurma

Best Movie - Nayakan

What's on your list? Take a trip to your memory lane and find out to share to us. This time for a change, a scrabbled names to tag 5 persons.

Lets play the tag game to share atleast 7 of your Firsts and Best's. Same rules apply.

1. DTYAI (ADITYA)

2. SHAU (USHA)

3.ITECH (CHETI)

4. LAKYANEE ( KALYANEE)

5. ANDYDAMA(MADYSANDY)

6. RIYAPSU (SUPRIYA)

7. TEHER (ETHER)

Thursday, July 26, 2007

WOMEN & ADOLESCENCE - A TOUGH ACT TO PLAY

WOMEN & ADOLESCENCE, A TOUGH ACT TO PLAY

I been lingering on this topic since my recent visit to India and trying to decide on whether it's a right thing to talk about it or not. Today I felt a strong urge inside me that pushed to write this blog anyways. I know this topic fits under the gray zone not even ladies wanna to talk about it. Then, Why me you might ask?!

It a delicate headliner and I am going to try my best to touch this very carefully without hurting anybody and transform my message I want to relay.

During my visit, one of the home functions my wife and I happen to pay attendance was my wife's niece Puberty Celebration. I was little uncomfortable and even felt embarrassed to be in the crowd. On the other occasion, I also happen witness a big banner at an hotel entrance "PUBERTY FUNCTION FOR CHITRA" when we went to have our dinner one day.

Both might have been a coincidence but these situations really pushed me to an edge to think more broadly on this topic. I was so disappointed to see all these functions still happening wide open inspite of generation changes and more educated people. People still continue to follow old customs to announce the adolescences of women.

Mahakavi Bharathiar - Freedom fighter and great Tamil poet once said,

Maadavarai Perandedave madavam seithedal vendumadi thozhi

translation

"You should be blessed or received a boon to be born as a Women"

He says to be born as women is a Great thing and not everybody gets that boon. Its not same way many women think these days. They think its their ill-fate and previous Janma karma to be born as women and suffer in life by going through all kinds of pain.

When I was at the function, I saw the childish face with a cute smile on that young girl without proper understanding of situation and not really grasping the things happenings around her. She just like to be center of attraction. I was like, "Why in the world are we still doing these things?"

It was once a custom and tradition in old days to call relatives to announce one's daughter puberty and let them know about her readiness for marriage. Those days child marriages were common and I can imagine the need for these function when it was tough to find a groom or not easy to spread the word around.

But today at the Internet age, we still continue to witness these celebration for Puberty happening without even knowing the actual reasons. Isn't that true, we are the hinderance to the privacy of a women? Why can't we just leave them alone during this tough times? We talk about women freedom and their privacy from having separate seats in buses or 33% reservations but this trifle act isn't that exactly proves the opposite of it.

Don't you think we are inculcated by our older generation on this type of customs? Its some of the left overs from previous generations which I strong believe to be vacuumed at no time.

I can easily sense their trouble and pain because I was born with 2 younger sisters. I witnessed them go thru their tough times every month. Inspite of their pain, they were also considered untouchable for 3 days. There are lots of silly explanations for 3 day untouchability factor which totally doesn't make sense these days.But I was never affected personally or mentally until I got married.

Witnessing my wife's pain now and the before-after hormone changes, I am slowly starting to realize that it's actually tough to be a Women. It's inscrutable being a men and tough to imagine being in their shoes. That doesn't mean that we don't have anything to do about it. Their problems actually affects us through their signs of being nebulous(confused), disconsolate or petulant and totally freaking out certain times. They try to cover-up their inconceivable pain and unspeakable sorrow with thin layer of makeup and their sweet smiles.

For sure, nobody can never take away their pain. But we can always help by staying next them and sharing their work by lending a hand. As the below quotes says,

Be to her virtues very kind, Be to her faults a little blind - by Matthew Prior

I think we(men) can be sensible enough to treat them kind, act blind when needed and adore their presence around us. They are very special and nothing wrong in giving them a VIP treatment when time calls.

I totally salute their brevity to face the trouble and transcend themselves to be a strong person and transform into different roles like wife, mom, sisters to make a happy family. That certainly makes them a distinct being in this planet earth.

We are in the juncture that we just selected our first women president. Its also about time to throw away all old customs that threatens women privacy. Be prudent to treat them kind with dignity, they deserve.

Lets celebrate the women hood but not at the stake of their privacy.

Why do you say "CHEERS"?

Reader Digest(RD), some say old man's magazine finds its way to my door step every month. I got a cheap deal to deliver at home. I like this magazine compared to others. I always make an attempt to get thru every page of it. As you know, its packed with lot of information especially word power, cozy articles from tabloids and good real stories. I happen to read an interesting article which I am sharing to you folks.
Hope you folks find it useful and knowledgeable. If you came across something similar, share it with us.







Monday, July 23, 2007

Quantum Physics & Lifes endless Questions

Who are we?

Why are we here?

Where we came from?

Where are we heading?

What is the reason for us to be here?

Did you ever asked these questions to yourself anytime in your life? I did wonder about them on & off and dwelled deep on few of them atleast once. But I couldn't able to find some realistic reasonable answers. Spiritually and Religiously, there are lot of explanations to these questions with evidences coming from our old vedas and epics. But I like to believe the truth went its proven scientifically with satisfying logic.
"What the bleep do we know?" -A part documentary, part story with interviews of top Scientist in the different areas share they own ideas and concepts which are oven together with each part of the main character in the movie explaining the role of Quantum Physics to shed some light to give us answers for these questions.

The movie took me on to a roller coaster ride along with the main role Amanda, who is a divorced photographer tumbles in to the rabbit hole to discover some mind-bending revelation and find the truth about reality. She conquers her fear by changing her thoughts by making fresh ones to create a new life from inside-out.

Let me share some interesting aspects which I discovered to answer some of those questions using the Quantum physics from the movie.


What is Reality?

Do you think we are pre-wired and programmed to see the reality as what it exists outside. I believe so too. But according to Quantum theory from the movie, reality is not what we see out there. Reality is created by us every moment. Its created by the models which is stored in our brain. Its combination of possibilities. We choose our own possibilities to make our own relative world. That's an amazing new concept. I never got grip of this theory. Its can be easily explained but hard to believe to think in terms of practical sense.



If we create our own reality, then why I am seeing what I am seeing is the question which comes out of it.

Why we see what we see?

I know everybody will say, we see thru our eyes and eyes show us what we need to see it. Think it more deeply! Are eyes the only body part involved in that process of realization?! You will sure to figure out more interesting facts. Eyes are just like Camera lens, we have big processor which resides in our head that is our BRAIN.

The most complicated tissues of all kind which acts like Camera chip to process the image send to it. Brain takes around 4 millions bit of information every second but can only process 2000 of it. If it can only process a fraction of the amount it absorbs, it will only show and translates those fraction for us to see and not everything. So we are not seeing a big picture, we are just seeing what we want to see.

Also Brain only process information by matching patterns. If you have the image set in your brain already, it matches the pattern to the one you are currently seeing and translates to you by spreading the knowledge to you. Scientist proved this theory by going back in the history. Native (Red)Indians couldn't see the Columbus Ship out in ocean when he sailed to discover America. They could only visualize after few days. Why?! Because they never seen a ship. They don't know how it looks like and their brain don't have the image to process it. After watching the ripple effects and keep looking for changes in the sea, they were able to slowly create the patterns and match them little by little to see the ship when it came close.
That in turn proves one of my own doubts about baby blindness. By birth all babies are blind and can't see a thing. They won't be able to see for atleast 3weeks. got to know when my boy was born last year. Then they slowly get their vision and color patterns to visualize it. I believe its because the brain is empty and it doesn't have the image patterns to match it. Once they start seeing things, it takes different patterns and tries to process is slowly and translates them one by one. Isn't that a practical proof for a question.
Thoughts can do Magic

Many of us know that there are tons of studies done to prove that meditation can change your life in all different ways. Meditation is basically about streamlining your thought process. Quantum Physics supports that process of aligning your thoughts and proves that it can produce immense results in your life and others life.

A Monk who is been meditating and practicing Tia- Chi for years changed a raw water to a distilled purified water with love. If a clear and streamlined thought can change water to a pure distilled one, just imagine what effect it can in our life.
Another study was done in Washington D.C. It was once the murder capital. Federal dept couldn't able to control the crime factor. Meanwhile some spiritual leaders join hands and did a group meditation for 1 week comprising of 4000 people. After that, the murder figures dropped down to 25%. What did it show?! It shows the thoughts affects the surroundings in large spectrum.

Thoughts are so interconnected within ourselves and around us. If we can change the thoughts and delink ourself from our old thoughts, we immediately disappear from being that old person. If we can create new thoughts, we automatically change our atmosphere and creating a new person or new life. We also send that vibe around us and that positive thought surrounding us has a great impact on the environment around us.

If you believe that you can walk on the water with positive thoughts, you could be able to do it and thats what we see in many of old Kung-fu movies. Positive thinkings is basically disguising the negative thinkings inside us.

Connecting back, don't you think if our thoughts manages the brain which in turn gets us to see and experience our own big world.


Emotions & Love
Emotions are just chemical reaction happening in our body sourced from the Brain. Every emotion has its own distinct outcome or signals which gets passed to every cell in our body to behave violently or softly as per the character. Emotions are us and there is no distinction between emotions and us. Emotions makes us.

Love is just a connection of emotions between two person. We shouldn't say that its love between two physical body. If the emotions changes in one person leading to break of love and dissatisfaction in love relationship. Emotions plays a major role in ones self reaction to the outside world.


Answers

According to Quantum Physics, we are here to create the reality. We are here to influence others world and we impact the environment by our thoughts. We are here to infliterate the space with our thoughts and create our own space in this universe.
"The outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to her inner state." – James Allen

That's absolute truth. Whats happening outside around you has total relationship with whats inside you. We are not limited by the environment. We creates our own environment by the beliefs and feelings. To suppose otherwise is like thinking that the tail can wag the dog.

For common man like me, it is really hard to digest all the scientific explanation about the life, thought process and reality. But it does give a new perspective on how one can change their life by modifying their thoughts and feelings associated with them.

You create your own reality and see more broader by just thinking positively and changing your thoughts. You can easily flip your life inside-out by just modifying your thoughts. Its within you and don't search outside.

Quantum Physics is like a ocean. You can dig more deep in this topic but its upto you to decide how far you want to go in this rabbit hole.
But don't you think its worth thinking these questions for a moment...

Friday, July 20, 2007

MY DEAR MOM'OHOLIC MOM!!

The only person on earth always thinks about their kids all the time are MOM's. This poem is specially dedicated to my precious MOM.


Moms are always special for their Kid's
For me, My Mom is just Xtra Super Special!!

She sworn in as MOM taking her throne that day
The day, she crowned me has her Prince Vijai(VJ)

She never closed her eyes deep enough,
And always waiting to feed my empty stomach

She told bed time stories and sang bed time songs,
Stories & Songs I will never ever forget till I die

She adored me as her Priceless Pearl,
As I am her only Son, the keeper of her lovable Soul
She acted real tough all my teen age,
To mold me as a better person for my own sake

She always taught me great values,
Values of commitment & confidence which are hard to evolve

She wanted to go to college, but time was never in her favor,
Fortuitously, she satisfied her dreams for my studies sending far away

She neither took a break nor opted for vacations,
She stayed busy, only showing up at family occasions

She flew on top of the sky when I gave my first Salary,
Its the first reward for her win against all rivalry(odds)

She stoned her heart and sent me apart to the alien land,
Hoping only the best to land for my future

She still tries to be a tough MOM at times,
Its her character, I would say to myself those times

I can go on and on, forever and ever,
But I can only find words fewer and few'er

Everybody says, She is just another MOM,
For me, She is always My dear Mom'oholic Mom!!!

GREAT SULEKHA BALL WITH JOCKY & DANCE COACH!!!

Everybody is excited about thsi Great Sulekha Ball. Interesting Pair up by Das and I guess a red carpet welcome to all the participates. But there are couple of things missing here.


I don't see a Jocky in place for this great event. So I am going to take the honor of hosting as the Jocky of tonight. I plan to play some excellent numbers and like to music of choice from the floor. Also I see lot of novice dancers on the floor who never even imagined dancing with well dressed men and wonderful beautiful ladies. I am also taking the pleasure of teachings ome dance steps. Tag along with me for fun night.


Its going to be tough for left footed(thats means they can't dance) individuals. Try you best. Lets start with WALTZ which DOC's favorite and its slow and sweet.



WALTZ


Waltz is a smooth progressive dance characterized by long, flowing movements, continuous turns, and rise & fall. Graceful and elegant, Waltz dancers glide around the floor almost effortlessly

Slow Waltz music is sweet, melodic and fluid. It is often orchestral music, mostly lacking in heavy percussion or drums, relying more on the melodic instruments to carry the rhythmic progression.


Men's Part
Left foot forward.
Right foot side & slightly forward.
Left foot closes to left foot.


Lady's Part


Right foot back.
Left foot side & slightly back.
Right foot closes to right foot.


Play the music: Fly me to the Moon


http://www.ballroomdancers.com/Music/info_song.asp?song=108321


Check out the link: http://www.ballroomdancers.com/Media2/Default.asp?ID=560


Hope you all got that steps. Try it out again, again. You don't need a partner to start with, just with hands wide and try the foot steps.


Here is some more music coming on your way,


http://www.ballroomdancers.com/Music/info_song.asp?song=108027


http://www.ballroomdancers.com/Music/info_song.asp?song=109602


Whats do you guys prefer the next dance, Salsa or Rhumba ?!

Thursday, July 19, 2007

INDIA TOUR IN ENGLAND - What can we expect?!

Lords, St John's Wood - London - Temperature around 60oC with slight chance of rain tomorrow.


Its a real nice spring like weather in London. Only between July and August, London really warms up to make it very much suitable to play a good and hard cricket. Its also the time of the year, weather get so unpredictable as per weather channel. We have seen it proved many times in Wimbledon opens.


At this great season and cool atmosphere, Team India is touring England after visiting Ireland and pocketing a good series wins over South Africa. They played good team cricket to take away the series 2-1 from Africans. It's India's first outing since 2002 to England. We won the NatWest tri-series by winning the final match 2 wkts under Ganguly's leadership. We were able to squel the 4 match test series 1-1. Its been 40 years since we won the test series in England soil.


Now its time for Dravid's to head the team and own the soul authority of the youngers to take on the Englishmen first time in his captaincy. The first match started off today in the prestigious and historic cricket ground in the world, THE LORD's. India is set to play 3 Tests and 7 ODI's during this tour.


The teams will compete to win the test series and take away the Pataudi Trophy, given by MCC to commemorate the 75th anniversary of India's Test debut.


Team India


It might probably the last English series for the famous batting quartet of captain Rahul Dravid, Sachin Tendulkar, Sourav Ganguly and VVS Laxman, and the four great guns will be keen to make an impression to make this contest interesting and thrilling one.


Strength

Bagging some wins on the way to London, Team India is showing good signs and has high level of confidence determined to decimate the Englishmen in full force at their own territory. They already played 2 warm-up match against the local county teams gave enough time to get acclimatised to the conditions.

Dravid better be well equipped with a good game plan and match strategy to go under critical conditions. Also our paper tigers need to show something in the pitch with some sensible and good batting. We do have strong battling lineup as usual including from Jaffer, Dinesh Karthik supported by experienced Dravid, Sachin & Ganguly. Dhoni as the 7th batsman with double duty on wicket keeping to add more depth to batting.



Weakness

Bowling department lacks experience, so it puts pressure on the bastmen to churn out big runs against the home team. Sreeshanth & RP Singh are yet to make their impression in the English Soil. Chawla will be the only spinner this time around taking the lead from Kumble to make english spin around the pitch.


Team England


Its the reciprocal tour of England tour to India in last 2006. England draw the series 1-1 but lost the ODI series to India. They sure do have plans to slump us to take away the test series.


Strength

It's their home ground and they are very well equipped with the same power to take the Indians under Vaughan leadership. The batting order is strong with Strauss and Cook opening the match. Pietersen and Collingwood will be supporting them coming next with Vaughan(captain) showing up in the middle.


Weakness

All-rounder Andrew Flintoff and paceman Steve Harmison are out of this match due to injuries. So England are banking more on their spin sensation Monty Panesar to show the magic. It will be a real test of character for the amiable spinner, the first Sikh to play Test cricket for England.


Also Broad, who has been selected in the England side for the first Test at Lord's.


To conclude, its going to be a good outing to watch and follow. With the weather really unpredictable, we have to wait and see how much cricket they can get to play.

With the strong batting order, we should be able to put chucks of runs on the board and try to bowl line and length to push them to win a match to start with and take on from there. I am hoping see a good show from the new guys Sreeshant and RP Singh. Also waiting to watch tons from Dravid and Laxman's in this series.

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Harry Potter Last book Climax Revealed...

One of the big news of today was all about the Harry Potter last and final book spoofing on the climax. A site reportedly posted some 400 photographs of final book revealing some the climax's that every Harry Potter fans longing to know about. This news had churned lot of discussions about the books fate when its set to release by Friday of this week.
Here is the snap shot of the story from MSNBC,
The set of nearly 400 photographs was said by those who posted them to replicate the Potter book in its entirety. The images, viewed by MSNBC.com, purport to be photographs of the new book, painstakingly taken two pages at a time from a copy lying open on the floor.

Good, the Scholastic spokeswoman, would neither confirm nor deny the authenticity of the files.
"There are multiple conflicting versions of what is alleged to be the book," she said. "I am not going to say what's real and what's not real. Nobody is going to be able to tell until they read the real book."

The highly anticipated final book in J.K. Rowling's seven-part series goes on sale Friday night. As is common with the release of highly publicized books and movies, pirates have posted several files online that they claim were obtained from advance copies.
Dueling endings
Last month, a hacker who identified himself as “Gabriel” claimed to have broken into the computer system of British publisher Bloomsbury PLC and posted what he claimed were key plot points, including the deaths of two central characters in the series.

Another version that surfaced this week said that no fewer than five characters die in a violent climax.The version that surfaced Tuesday had a very different outcome, with three characters dying.

I am guessing, it might have well planned drama of the publisher to increase the publicity and invoke interest among the readers.

Free publicity, who don't want that huh!!

DON'T DARE TO KNOW ME - I AM TAGGED TOO

Alright, I am on the roll play to join the bandwagon by getting Tagged today. Balls are at my court thrown by four of my favy bloggers Pakhi, sanghouston, mottogucci & Ally. Thank you for thinking of me guys!!

I was little concerned yesterday about not getting picked for tagging. Now I got tagged, I feel why the heck I got tagged. Its not tough job to find few good, bad & ugly things about you. But its very good exercise to divulge about yourself and reinvent for the world. Its a fun game.

Before anybody gets me again, here is my list of 8 testaments as of today.
1. I am a good person.
2. I am a social & fun loving guy.
3. I am a kind gentleman.

OK! OK!! Don't look at me like that. I know its too good to be true. Enough of bragging about myself. Lets cut to the chase and share a small part of my original face.

Real list of 8 things about me,

GOOD

1. I had a wonderful middle class type childhood learning life lessons in hard way. My mom taught me the mantra, "Hard work with Confidence and Commitment never fails" which has been my core asset since my teen. I am happy to have great parents who always supported my efforts. I am grateful to live the All American Dream life with my lovely wife and cute little boy.

2. I am a never give up, never quit persistence fanatic. I am follower of the famous saying from Swami Vivekanada, "Arise Awake and Stop not till the goal is reached" and keeper of Ghazni Mohammed Never Quit story. Its been working well all these years rendering great success so far. To name one, I ran my first ever Boston Marathon in just 3:41 mins. I never imagined to run that long in my life. I have valise full of never give up stories but its not the time.

3. I am Social service passionate. I love to help out others and contribute to the country & society in whatever way I can whether its India or USA. I believe in JFK's words, "Ask not what the country can do for you, ask what you can do for the country". I always find ways to help and also involve others into it. I been trying to create a Helping Angel Forum in Sulekha by bloggers to help each other when in need. Hope one day, I will gain all your trust to make it happen.

4. I am not a King of a trades but I like to say Jack(ass) of all arts. I like to do things myself whether its plumbing job or computer repair. I always keep tabs on most of the latest happenings around the world from Politics to music, sports to technology and whatever it begs my interest. I am a goal oriented person. Try to set goals in my everything I do and go for it.

I believe in healthy living. I don't hesitate to spend hours and hours in Gym working out and experimenting different. I am a decent cook, like to cook for a change and give my wife break. I am not vivid reader but read readers digest and Toastmaster magazines which shows up at my door step every month. I love watching movies. I won't hear a thing when I am fully immersed into it.

5. I am a music addict. It doesn't just limit to particular genre, its all over the map. I would die without any music tonic every day. Right now, I am adventuring on western Drums and also trying to learn Mirudangam(southern percussion instrument). So I can play both together, thats on of my ambition. I love to freak out and go for dancing especially Ballroom & Latin. I spent lot of time learning them professionaly. I love nature walks and adventurous trips. I am avid traveller and have a dream to travel all states of US by road one day.


Coin collecting and key chains gathering is some of my other hobbies. Right now, I am in hunt for american State Quarter (25 cents) coins. Every year since 2000, US Mint releases 5 coins of different states commemorating their entry to the Union to form United states. I am a die hard cricket fan. I am follow other sports like Tennis and trying to get hands on it too.

BAD

6. I am a short tempered guy but not a petulant person. Anything can set my anger alarm off when I am on a some serious job. That what I hate about myself and trying to work on it. But basically I am a soft & kind hearted.

7. I am easy to be pleased and made to believe anything. I was never an hard nut case. Anybody can easily gain access to my inner feelings and take advantage of it.

8. Last but not least, I long for attention. I feel its bad some way. But I always like to be noticed in whatever I do. Sulekha is been a savior on that side my life. I always want to be showcased in the featured list. I know that too much of greed. But I been getting some reasonable attention lately thru your valuable and kind comments fueling to push myself hard to strive and deliver good blogs.

UGLY - I couldn't find anything so bad about me.

~ Sigh ~ Its finally done. I hope it didn't take you all to the boredom space.

I am going to tag some new comers to Sulekha who is been trying to make impression in this blog world.
Density Matrix
R-Sharma
madysandy
Silvycorner
Ether
meenakshinm
Vidya Rajagopalan
The rules of the game:

1. Each player starts with 8 random facts/habits about themselves.
2. People who are tagged, write a blog post about their own 8 random things, and post these rules.
3. At the end of your post you need to tag 8 people and include their names. Don’t forget to leave them a comment and tell them they’re tagged, and to read your blog.


Tag on and join the fun game...

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

THE DEPARTED Movie Review

The movie that fetched Best Director Award to Martin Scorsese(last Oscar 2007), a well known, top rated director in Hollywood vicinity. Its been a long due for this 64 year old creator since 1981 when his movie "Raging Bull" was first nominated. His other nominations include "The Last Temptation of Christ," "Goodfellas", "Gangs of New York and "The Aviator". Its worth a wait and "THE DEPARTED" proved it from its box of his hit.

On the oscar night, when he finally received the much awaited award, he shared his joy bringing out smiles around the audiences & viewers by saying "Can you please check the envelope again?! He has a great presence among the Hollywood celebrities and everybody gave him a standing ovation for his accomplishment. Some of other good ones which I like from his catalogue that might have helped him to get his fame were Taxi Driver, Cape Fear & Casino.

Lets segway to talk about "THE DEPARTED", another wonderful number adding one more feather to his crown. Its featured by a great and flawless performance from the good old Jack Nicholas and his company.

An excellent, improved showcase by Matt Damon and class acting from new cameo Leo DiCaprio made this one a must to watch. The setting's is from Boston instead of Newyork and the gangsters may be Irish rather than Italian-Americans, but the brutal, straight to the face violence with raw dialogues makes it an amazing piece of work.

The story of the movie, goes off in thirteen to a dozen different directions to confuse viewers who aren't really well versed in watching mob movies with different accent. It actually threw my wife off with all the Boston slangs and the "F" word used in every dialogue spoken. Actually counting the number of "F" work used in this movie would be a great competition.

The main plotline that matters more: the race to uncover the moles hidden inside the mob and the Massachusetts State Police.

Here is the small version of the story. Massachusetts state police force is waging war on organized crime ran by a mob, headed by gangland chief Costello (Jack Nicholson). Young undercover cop Billy Costigan (Leonardo DiCaprio) is assigned to infiltrate the mob syndicate. While Billy is quickly gaining Costello's confidence, Colin Sullivan (Matt Damon), a hard nut young criminal brought up by Costello especially to join the police force.

As a bright young man who wants to show his true respect to Costello and pay off his debt, he promised to do his best to infiltrate the police department and work as an informer for the syndicate. He immediately raised to a position of power in the Special Investigation Unit thru his excellent and dedicated work getting hands on the case.

Both the men becomes deeply involved by his double life, gathering information about the plans and counter-plans of the operations he has penetrated. But when it becomes clear to both the gangsters and the police that there's a mole in their midst, Billy and Colin are suddenly in danger of being caught in a dead trap and exposed to the enemy and each must race to uncover the identity of the other man in time to save himself.

Its also has a love triangle bringing these two men, sorting shelter for pleasure. The climax was tragic with an unexpected turn folding at the end, bringing a stop to all rat & mole story.

Overall, its movie which has all sorts of substance, and sure to entertain people who look out for a thriller feast. It doesn't fail to surprise at times and reveals the vulgarity of a mob movie all time with its dialogue and action.

Here is the snippet from about.com to say about this movie,

"The Departed is a star-studded gangster thriller loaded with profanity, dark humor, graphic violence, and stunning performances. It’s wild and edgy and everything we’ve come to love about Scorsese"


Plus Points: Good story, excellent direction, good actions from Jack, Matt & Dicaprio

Minus Points: Editing and flow at times lag

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Monday, July 16, 2007

My Son is Toddling and Talking...

My one year old sweet little son just stepped into another adventurous year one month ago and he is starting to toddle to prove he has become a true toddler.

He is toddling like a DUCK and talking like a PARROT

We watched him walk a full stretch of 10 feet going back and forth touching the TV. We were so happy to see him toddle like a duck and trying to balance with his hands.
For Parents, every stage of kids life is special and different with interesting things to look out and watch for all the time. Every kid is unique on its own and very special for their parents. They progress differently. As adults, we tend to enjoy their innocent smile, duck walks, crawling, peculiar sounds they make and every little things they do. I guess its because we see ourselves in them. We see a little version of us in their naughty, no-worry life and try to cheer it. That's what I feel when I see my son.

We been waiting to see him walk all this time from the day he turned one. We have the cameras ready to tape this finest moments. He showed some signs of walking with bit of support, so we hoped he would be walking in no time on his own. Since he is a fast crawler, my wife kept saying he won't walk soon because he crawls fast.
Kids who crawls fast doesn't tend to walk or toddle soon is her myth since they can crawl soon enough to reach places and they don't put special effort to walk to reach places. That may be actually true in my son's case.

When we tried to make him walk, he don't want to walk. He just want to crawl to go any places. He can crawl and reach upstairs in 5 secs. He is so finicky to not to walk rather choose to crawl. I have seen some kids don't crawl well but they start to walk soon. I know it all depends and varies from kid to kid. So we just have to wait a little long with patience.

He suddenly started walking one day and trying to walk continusly without any support now. We were so thrilled to see him walk more often and taking trips to his favorite places in his cute duck's walk steps.

He also started responding to our chats thru his cute little childish speeches, trying to convey something. He repeat words like a Parrot when my wife teaches him.

She would says, "VIJAI". He would say, EEEJAY.

I say, "APPA", he would try to say, "IPPPA".

When we try to stress on it, he wouldn't do it. Kids have it own way of doing things and have their own mood cycle. We have to wait to get on to their cycle to go along them. That's what we learnt so far and every day is a new learning for us. He is starting to get good at repeating numbers too. He is a fast learner(like me, I suppose)

He say, "theedreee" for "Three" and "TTooo" for "Two".

When he repeats them, he is blushing with mouth full of teeth's.

We are totally enjoying every bit of our son's childhood. Kids are so adorable and their funny activities make us feel like we are reliving our child life. Don't you agree?!
I know the days are not too far out when he is going to get on my nerve's and make me mad.I hope I can handle that time.

Friday, July 13, 2007

FRIDAY THE 13th AND HORRIFICATION!!

Today is Friday the 13th!!

Only couple of times a year, day 13th falls on the friday of the week. This year, it already fell one time in April and today is the last one for this year. Whenever that happens, you hear lot of superstitions, urban legends, phobia's and lot of other horror stories. Last year we heared about 6-6-2006(666) phobia created around the world. We were worried about my wife giving birth on that day but fortunately not.

This Friday 13th and 666(triple six) phobia whirls around among the people is really weird if you think in the practical sense. They talk about being careful as it unlucky day or bad luck haunts on you at that day and so forth. I don't know whether its true to believe or not but whenever I hear about friday 13th, it reminds me of the movie "Friday the 13th".

It brings back memories of good old days when I used to be so scared especially after watching the horror movies. Getting scared voluntarily, never stopped me watching those evil, horror movies. I got so addicted at times watching these horror movies whether or not I can sleep that night or go to the bathroom in the pitch dark. I don't know why?! May be I like to be horrified!!

I guess I am cursed to watch horror movies after my first exposure to the all time favorite movie, "THE EVIL DEATH". I watched when I was like 10-11 years old. When you are that young, the horrification totally get on to you. It was horror cum suspense movie which freezes your bone to chill and slithers every one of it in the body every time a shocking scene rolls around. I can still remember it so fresh.

The movie was a total hit. I can vaguely remember the story. There were like 5 friends takes trip to woods and stays at an abandoned house. They encounter all sorts of horror things in that the place one at time and get killed one by one. The movies rolls very slowly revolving around that house fully with some shocking and exhilarating scenes, starting the horrification process first time inside me.

Life changed after that movie. I got immersed into the horror factor and I couldn't able to go alone anywhere especially in the dark. Fear of darkness just glued on to me creating a mental block. I can still feel that block at times to this day. It just hangs in there in my closet. There are lots of sequel to that movie, none of 'em really made a great impact to the audience except Part I and II.

Next one which took on the horror height was "The Omen", another great horror & suspense movie. The story plot is like a kid who has the birthmark "666" (the sign for child of Satan) tries to make the presence in this world opposing Christianity by killing every body who gets to know about his Satanic character. This movie was accolades for its originality and vulgarity to the characters. It had a good story line and nice direction.

"The Exorcist" is another famous and more talked about horror movie at that time. But it failed to impress me as one. With some horror devil characters, its just not really my type of horror movie I guess. I heard some weird stories about the filming of this movie in local theater at chennai. They advertised like whoever watches this movie alone in the theatre can win prizes. Few seems to have taken that risk watching it alone to experience the thrill. Some couldn't take it and close to get an heart attack. Also there are news that many had died watching that movie in a heart attack in other countries.

After that, there were series of movies on evil and horror plot with different versions of vampire and Satan's. Recently like 3years back, I watched a movie named "THE RING". Its was a remake of a Japanese movie. I should say it revitalized the horrification and totally gave a different outlook of the horror movies. Its a movie about taking revenge in a evil way coming out of the TV sets thru the video tape. It gets spread by the video tape. Its a totally wierd one. You should watch it to feel it.

I went to see this movie, the day before my half marathon race and my roommates where out of station. That night, I couldn't sleep along after watching the movie. I tried to sleep with lights and nothing worked. I might got only 2-3 hours of sleep. With little amount of rest, I couldn't run the race effectively and I failed to meet my expected time limit. It always reminds of that horrific day.

Last but not least, Friday the 13th which is not exactly an evil horror but an entertaining slasher/thriller. There were lots of parts to this movie. I don't remember exactly which part I happened to watch. It had a good plot to about taking a revenge against people and lot of them getting killed in the camp ground. It started off the race of many more thrillers like Valentine, Silence of the Lambs etc.,

Evil and Horror goes together and they are meant to scare you!! I don't think there is anything wrong to get scared. So I feel its ok to be scared at this age too.
After all humans are frone to horrification!!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

HOW TO PRESENT A GOOD BLOG?

Thank you fellow Suls, Sulekhans or Sulekhites whatever you like to be called. I am amazed by the overwhelming response received and felt the pleasant vibe through all your comments for my previous post, What's a blog all about?(BE A TRUE BLOGGER AND NOT STEALER). Flury of comments & notes kept coming both from newbies and old timers.

I am glad you all agree some way or other that there is a need for a write-up/blog like that one to encourage every bloggers by invoking creativity and help them to deliver something better and strive for the best instead of duplicating articles by replicating from other sites.

Like every good first part, there is always a second part waiting to come. Whether its movie or books, that's the unofficial rule of thumb!! Don't you agree?! I think blog is not an exception. This is going to be a sequel or Part II of the previous one responding to some requests from newbies as well as old timers to give some clear pointers on how to start and present a blog?

I assure you, I won't bore you with the usual crap you read all the time, its fresh as Amma(mom's) idli from the cooker with chutney and sambar(side dishes) to make it interesting to all.

How-to start a blog?

If you are already here and asking that question, you should know that you just boarded the train taking the first step towards an exciting journey of blogging with lot of adventure waiting for you to foresee(only for true bloggers). But you might wonder and feel like lost in a big jungle without any milestones or markers to get to the place which you don't know yet. That's what makes this journey more interesting and thrilling which is the right ticket to get you out of the boredom.

Quite frankly, when I started I really didn't know where I am going. But after a while, it just became an habit and path became so clear. Just do the right thing, by writing what I know the best.

I am neither an English pundit or a legitimate authority to instruct or lecture you anything.
I am just like any of you, internet savvy with a background of computer science engg. That doesn't make me qualified to be a good blogger. It just helps me know things better and clear, thats all. I still need to know good or reasonable English to present a good write up. To tell you the truth, I never scored good marks in English grammar in my public schooling where grammar was never a favorite topic.

Why I am telling you all this?! If I can do it, you can do it too and do better than me. All you need is Confidence, Content and Commitment(3 C's) to get good at it.

“There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results.”

- By an unknown Author (thinkexists.com)

I learnt a terminology/method called CODE in my Toastmaster (A International club for public speaking) exposure.
What is CODE method?

Content - Organization - Delivery - Effectiveness

I use this method pretty much to evaluate any of own my speech or the speeches given by my fellow toastmasters. Its like a guideline to evaluate a speech. The same method very well suits to create and present a good article or blog. Lets deep dive into the specifics of them.

Content
First and foremost, you need a content/topic to make a blog. Don't jump right out immediately looking for one in Google or Internet. Hold on!! Just take a moment to look inside you, around you. Watch closely about the happenings in the world or city or in the neighborhood. You will sure to find hordes of topics like your childhood memories, your hobbies, your habits, your interest, eateria, get-together's, speciality about hometown, your feelings towards the current happenings, your career, your expertise and so forth.

Try to derive a short list, picking only those topics which you are very much passion about. I blogged more about cricket during world cup, my marathon experience, posted about the current city Houston and Texas state. If you think you can tell good stories, go for it. Are you a good thinker and work with words, create short poems and blast it out.

Once you have the ideas or list, jot it down or put it in a notepad. Since Sulekha doesn't have an option to save the draft of the post. You can create an account in blogspot.com and save your topics and put small note under each one of the topic and add-on each time you get material on those topics and save it for later. Once you are ready, just post it in Sulekha.

Organization

Every article/blog should start with a good opening to attract the audience or reader, support the topic with informative body and close with a take way points.

For example, you can open with a positive note or something which everybody is look out to read and learn more. You can add a quote borrowing it from http://www.quotationspage.com or http://www.thinkexist.com/. You can also add some practical jokes or stories which you find it interesting to support your content. You can try putting current news related to your topic as the open and drive the attention. Its nothing wrong to be finicky on choosing the right opening.

Avoid using technical jorgans and acronyms since it won't interest lot of readers.Add-on the blog with facts and factoids in the body to make it more interesting and Close the blog with a summary and call for action or welcoming comments for discussion.

Delivery

This an yet another important aspect in blogging. You should choose the right background and font color combination to make it readable. I remember a blogger(now one of my favorite) when she first started had green background with green letter font. It was really hard to read. People just don't go further after it and nobody bothered to tell you to change it. So watch out and don't send away the readers at the first attempt.

Make it look good by adding para breaks, bold main points or use different colors, underlining important facts all of it makes more interesting to read. One of my pet peeve is grammatical mistakes which I am still working on to fix it. So I am very careful to do the spell check and usage of words before I post it. Try to use different words picking from the sites like http://dictionary.reference.com/wordoftheday/ and try give different feel to your writing instead of being monotonous.

Effectiveness

You might have a good interesting and informative blog but if you don't have good title then nobody is going to knock the door to check it out. Choose a attractive title to create attention of readers tempeting to read your blog. Add pictures accordingly and relatively. Pictures speak way better than the text. Try to use your own pics if not you can get it from internet and don't forget to give credit for the site. Also you can video or audio files to make it more attractive and interesting. I will save the more technical part for the next blog.

This is just yet another way/method to create a blog and its not the only way. I hope I didn't scare you with any technical aspect. You are not compulled to follow this method. CODE method is just the guiding factor for good write-up or a blog. I always try to evaluate my blog to see whether it passes the code method before posting it. Its a good test to improve and deliver good blogs.

To conclude, just don't hesitate to throw out any interesting items you think will intrigue people to read. There are veteran bloggers who talk about various different topics which aren't so informative but they still fun read. Blogging doesn't have to be serious deal but I am sure it should atleast be merriment and interesting for both you and readers.

Blog on. Prepare and present a proper blog, to make your presence a best one in this new paradigm.