Thursday, March 29, 2007

Millionaire Mail - I

Thieves come in all shapes and all types. We have seen simple pickpocket thief in the bus to the next big planned thief scoot away the whole house in the night and then day light thief who try out his mischievous act to pull something from you.. The list goes endless..

In this current email era, there comes the high tech thieves who work diligently to rip us off with their innovative ideas. I like to call them Millionaire Thieves or Junk mail thieves. Nowadays Junk mails has became a part and parcel of this Internet days. Some of us became very cautious and avoid them by easily filtering them via spam blockers and direct them to go directly to trashbox.

I had just happen to read some of them which ended in my inbox recently and really amazed of the innovative ideas these junk mailers use to get you for the long haul. What a cool move to reel in with a small bait to catch a big fish?

I thought lets take roll. Here is the first one. How the heck the Banker in OUAGADOU(don't even know where it exists in the map) know just me to offer a business proposal. I guess I am famous all over the world huh..

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FROM THE DESK OF MR.HUMPHREY LAMA
AUDITING AND ACCOUNTING UNIT.
FINANCIAL TRUST BANK LTD (FTB)
OUAGADOUGOU BURKINA FASO
(CONFIDENTIAL)
I AM.MR.HUMPHREY LAMA THE DIRECTOR IN CHARGE OF AUDITING AND ACCOUNTING SECTION OF FINANCIAL TRUST BANK LTD (FTB) OUAGADOUGOU BURKINA-FASO WEST AFRICA.

THE PROPOSAL:DURING OUR INVESTIGATION AND AUDITING IN THIS BANK, MY DEPARTMENT CAME ACROSS A VERY HUGE SUM OF MONEY BELONGING TO A DECEASED PERSON WHO DIED ON31ST OCTOBER 1999,IN A PLANE CRASH AND THE FUND HAS BEEN DORMANT IN HIS ACCOUNT WITH THIS BANK WITHOUT ANY CLAIM OF THE FUND IN OUR CUSTODY EITHER FROM HIS FAMILY OR RELATION BEFORE OUR DISCOVERY TO THIS DEVELOPMENT.THE SAID AMOUNT WAS U.S $3.5M ( THREE MILLION FIVEHUNDRED THOUSAND UNITED STATES DOLLARS) AS IT MAY INTEREST YOU TO KNOW. (Yeah thats right, 3.5 million just laying there for us to take it.. WOW!)

I WILL NOT FAIL TO INFORM YOU THAT THIS TRANSACTION IS 100% RISK FREE. ON SMOOTH CONCLUSION OF THIS TRANSACTION, YOU WILL BE ENTITLED TO 40% OF THE TOTAL SUM AS GRATIFICATION, WHILE 5% WILL BE SET ASIDE TO TAKE CARE OF EXPENSES THAT MAY ARISE DURING THE TIME OF TRANSFER AND ALSO TELEPHONE BILLS, WHILE 55% WILL BE FOR ME AND MY PARTNER. (40% for 3.5M - 1.5M - Not a bad deal huh!)

PLEASE, YOU HAVE BEEN ADVICED TO KEEP "TOP SECRET" AS I AM STILL IN SERVICE AND INTEND TO RETIRE FROM SERVICE AFTER WE CONCLUDE THIS DEAL WITH YOU. I WILL BE MONITORING THE WHOLE SITUATION HERE IN THIS BANK UNTIL YOU CONFIRM THE MONEY IN YOUR ACCOUNT AND ASK ME TO COME DOWN TO YOUR COUNTRY FOR SUBSEQUENT SHARING OF THE FUND ACCORDING TO PERCENTAGES PREVIOUSLY INDICATED AND FURTHER INVESTMENT, EITHER IN YOUR COUNTRY OR ANY COUNTRY YOU ADVICE US TO INVEST IN. ALL OTHER NECESSARY VITAL INFORMATION WILL BE SENT TO YOU WHEN I HEAR FROM YOU.

I LOOK FORWARD TO RECEIVE YOUR IMMEDIATE RESPONSE.
YOURS FAITHFULLY,
MR.HUMPHREY LAMA.

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Here is my kind response to get the ball rolling,

Subject:Re: Treat As Urgent
To:"humphrey lama" humphrey_lama1970@latinmail.com
OK Sir. Thanks for the offer..
What will be my next step in the business proposal ?
VIJAI

I am waiting to get reeled in acting to have taken the bait. Will wait and watch...

Non-violence Rocks - An Interesting True Story !!

Dr Arun Gandhi, grandson of Mahatma Gandhi and founder of the MK Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence, in his June 9 lecture at the University of Puerto Rico,shared the following story:

I was 16 years old and living with my parents at the institute my grandfather had founded 18 miles outside of Durban, South Africa, in the middle of the sugar plantations. We were deep in the country and had no neighbors, so my two sisters and I would always look forward to going to town to visit friends or go to the movies.

One day, my father asked me to drive him to town for an all-day conference, and I jumped at the chance. Since I was going to town, my mother gave me a list of groceries she needed and, since I had all day in town, my father asked me to take care of several pending chores, such as getting the car serviced.

When I dropped my father off that morning, he said, "I will meet you here at 5 pm, and we will go home together." After hurriedly completing my chores, Iwent straight to the nearest movie theatre. I got so engrossed in a John Wayne double-feature that I forgot the time. It was 5:30 before I remembered. By the time I ran to the garage and got the car and hurried to where my father was waiting for me, it was almost 6:00.

He anxiously asked me, "Why were you late?"

I was so ashamed of telling him I was watching a John Wayne western movie that I said, "The car wasn't ready, so I had to wait," not realizing that he hadalready called the garage.

When he caught me in the lie, he said: "There's something wrong in the way I brought you up that didn't give you the confidence to tell me the truth.In order to figure out where I went wrong with you, I'm going to walk home 18 miles and think about it."

So, dressed in his suit and dress shoes, he began to walk home in the dark on mostly unpaved, unlit roads. I couldn't leave him, so for five-and-a-half hours Idrove behind him, watching my father go through this agony for a stupid lie that I uttered. I decided then and there that I was never going to lie again.

I often think about that episode and wonder, if he had punished me the way we punish our children, whether I would have learned a lesson at all. I don't think so. I would have suffered the punishment and gone on doing the same thing. But this single non-violent action was so powerful that it is still asif it happened yesterday.

Samiya Upma & Forced Bachelors

It is a long tiring day. I got home around 7pm.


Nobody home, as my wife and son gone for vacation to India. Its just me, home alone. I just want to lay flat and would love somebody serve a hot fresh food. I know its not going to happen. So I rested a bit and think about the next thing.


I refreshed myself to get out of the Zombie zone and did my evening prayers. Its now time to worry about something to satisfy my starving stomach. I opened the fridge and its mostly empty. I don't see anything except the dosa dove and frozen stuffs. I was really bored eating the same old Frozen Parata's and dosa with sambar.


My mouth really begs for something better and fresh. It is used to some good varieties, as my wife was reasonably a nice cook especially specialist in north india type. I love her veg. noodles, mutter paneer and Biriyani's. Alright,OK! Stop thinking about that now.. I can't bring anything of that now..

Then I start to think about, "what can I prepare fast enough to get it done in 15mins to feed my starving belly and at same time not to miss the "Kolangal" Soap opera in SUNTV". There are only 2 dish options, its either going to Maggi Noodles and Upma. I decided to go for Upma as its healthier than maggi.


I was like, "Who invented this Upma dish?" Its the life saver for any bachelor who knows to cook. Upma is one of the easy to make dish famous and very well know in Tamilnadu and sourthern side. Incidently Upma and Forced Bachelorship(FB) goes very well together. Its is easy to make when its tough time surviving as the Forced Bachelor.


Its is not an easy and fun life. Its tough because heart and soul wonders about your family all the time when you are far away from them. There are lots of people worse than me lead a lonely life home away from home. People who work the blue and Kaaki collar jobs in middle east, Singapore, Malaysia only get to go their home every 2 or 3 years. They can't take their family with them because of their limited salary. Its not that bad for me. It just 2 months for me and my wife will back from India.


TV advertisement brought me back to real. OK! I need to make the Upma now. It can be made in Rawa or Samiya. I have the Bambino Vermicilli which is also called as Samiya(rice noodles), so lets make Samiya Upma. I still remember the recipe my mom sent me in her letter when I was a Bachelor.

Here you go,
I gathered INGREDIENTS:

2 Cups Samiya, 3 cups Water, 1/2 - 3tsp oil, 2 small chilli, 1 Onion, mustard and jeera seeds, curry leaves

Preparation:

1.Cut onion and green chillies into small pieces.

2. Put kadai ( pan ) on flame.

3. Add oil.

4. After oil boils add all the seeds ( mustard, jeera..)

5. Once mustered seeds starts sound add onion and green chilly pieces and curry leaves.

6. After onion fries ( onion changes into golden brown color) add water and salt.

7. Wait till water boiles heavily ( for about 10- 12 min)

8. Now pour Samiya gently ( without forming clots) by stirring with big spoon.

9. Stirr gently on low flame till all water evaporates

Samiya Upma is ready in just 15mins...min. Its right on time for the serial to start. I just took some in the plate and start to eat up with sugar on side watching it...

I love it man. It bought old memories of my teen age, when I use hate Upma for real. Now, its the food from heaven...WOW!!

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Interview with Top Bloggers(Supriya) - Open for questions

Hi Happy bloggers,
Sulekha had provided us this award winning blogging community with totally user friendly environment for us to share our thoughts, views to grow and also at same time learn from others. We all been enjoying this luxury of thought provoking, interesting blogs from very good bloggers in different corners of the world who continue to surprise us by delivering topics in different spectrum of life drafted in their own way.

Its been more 3 months since sulekha had introduced ranking system to provoke interest among people to start blogging and also to give credits to some excellent ones. There are bloggers who been writing blogs since sulekha introduced it and continue to thrive and enrich this blogging community. At same time, we see new faces every day joining this community add new blood to it.


You will all agree to me that its not only takes courage and experience to share your thoughts in this open world, it obviously takes lot of time and effort to dedicate yourself to continuously contribute with creative topics. By reading those blogs, we have become favorites for their writings. We all have our own favorite bloggers from whom we always look out for good eats to our mind and soul. We also ponder on how they get to write like this, where they get this idea, I like to know other things and so forth..

I had my own questions like that and so I came up with an idea to have a straight talk with them. I am planning to host an interview with good bloggers who been lavishly enjoying tones of comments and kudos from all of us.. We have a lot to learn from and also know about them..

First one who opened up and accepted my invitation is our very own Blog hebrew princess "SUPRIYA". She is been going crazy lately with her creative and fun writings. She recently jumped from Rank #7 to #6. Congrats Supriya !!

I happen to read some of her blogs, here is few of my favorites from her achieve.

I am opening this blog to post any of your questions which you wanted and liked to answered by Supriya.. I am planning to do the Interview in couple of days..
Please don't hesitate to add type of questions which you always wanted to this little princesses.

Change Management by Azim Premji

11 Lessons on Change Management: Azim Premji

"It's not the strongest nor most intelligent of the species that survive; it is the one most adaptable to CHANGE" - Charles Darwin

"While change and uncertainty have always been a part of life, what has been shocking over the last year has been both the quantum and suddenness of change. For many people who were cruising along on placid waters, the wind was knocked out of their sails. The entire logic of doing business was turned on its head. Not only business, but also every aspect of human life has been impacted by the change. What lies ahead is even more dynamic and uncertain. I would like to use this opportunity to share with you some of our own guiding principles of staying afloat in a changing world. This is based on our experience in Wipro. Hope you find them useful.

First, be alert for the first signs of change.
Change descends on every one equally; it is just that some realize it faster. Some changes are sudden but many others are gradual. While sudden changes get attention because they are dramatic, it is the gradual changes that are ignored till it is too late. You must have all heard of story of the frog in boiling water. If the Temperature of the water is suddenly increased, the frog realizes it and jumps out of the water. But if the temperature is very slowly increased, one degree at a time, the frog does not realize it till it boils to death. You must develop your own early warning system, which warns you of changes and calls your attention to it. In the case of change, being forewarned is being forearmed.

Second, anticipate change even when things are going right .
Most people wait for something to go wrong before they think of change. It is like going to the doctor for a check up only when you are seriously sick or thinking of maintaining your vehicle only when it breaks down. The biggest enemy of future success is past success. When you succeed, you feel that you must be doing something right for it to happen. But when the parameters for success changes, doing the same things may or may not continue to lead to success. Guard against complacency all the time. Complacency makes you blind to the early signals from the environment that something is going wrong.


Third, always look at the opportunities that change represents. Managing change has a lot to go with our own attitude towards it. It is proverbial half-full or half-empty glass approach. For every problem that change represents, there is an opportunity lurking in disguise somewhere. It is up to you to spot it before someone else does

Fourth, do not allow routines to become chains . For many of us the routine we have got accustomed to obstruct change. Routines represent our own zones of comfort. There is a sense of predictability about them. They have structured our time and even our thought in a certain way. While routines are useful, do not let them enslave you. Deliberately break out of them from time to time.

Fifth, realize that fear of the unknown is natural.
With change comes a feeling of insecurity. Many people believe that brave people are not afflicted by this malady. The truth is different. Every one feels the fear of unknown. Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to manage fear without getting paralyzed. Feel the fear, but move on regardless.


Sixth, keep renewing yourself.
This prepares you to anticipate change and be ready for it when it comes. Constantly ask yourself what new skills and competencies will be needed. Begin working on them before it becomes necessary and you will have a natural advantage. The greatest benefit of your education lies not only in what you have learnt, but also in working how to learn. Formal education is the beginning of the journey of learning. Yet I do meet youngsters who feel that they have already learnt all there is to learn. You have to constantly learn about people and how to interact effectively with them. In the world of tomorrow, only those individuals and organizations will succeed who have mastered the art of rapid and on-going learning.


Seventh, surround yourself with people who are open to change.
If you are always in the company of cynics, you will soon find yourself becoming like them. A cynic knows all the reasons why something cannot be done. Instead, spend time with people who have a "can-do" approach. Choose your advisors and mentors correctly.Pessimism is contagious, but then so is enthusiasm. In fact, reasonable optimism can be an amazing force multiplier.

Eighth, play to win .
I have said this many times in the past. Playing to win is not the same as cutting corners. When you play to win, you stretch yourself to your maximum and use all your potential. It also helps you to concentrate your energy on what you can influence instead of getting bogged down with the worry of what you cannot change. Do your best and leave the rest.


Ninth, respect yourself . The world will reward you on your successes. Success requires no explanation and failure permits none. But you need to respect yourself enough so that your self-confidence remains intact whether you succeed or fail. If you succeed 90 percent of the time, you are doing fine. If you are succeeding all the time, you should ask yourself if you are taking enough risks. If you do not take enough risks, you may also be losing out on many opportunities. Think through but take the plunge. If somethings do go wrong, learn from them. I came across this interesting story some time ago: One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway, it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and begin to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that fell on his back, the donkey was doing some thing amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and totted off! Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick is to not to get bogged down by it. We can get out of the deepest wells by not stopping. And by never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Tenth, in spite of all the change around you, decide upon what you will never change - your core values .
Take you time to decide what they are but once you do, do not compromise on them for any reason. Integrity is one such value.


Finally, we must remember that succeeding in a changing world is beyond just surviving.
It is our responsibility to create and contribute something to the world that has given us so much.


We must remember that many have contributed to our success, including our parents and others from our society. All of us have a responsibility to utilize our potential for making our nation a better place for others, who may not be as well endowed as us, or as fortunate in having the opportunities that we have got.

Let us do our bit, because doing one good deed can have multiple benefits not only for us but also for many others. Let me end my talk with a small story I came across some time back, which illustrates this very well.

This is a story of a poor Scottish farmer whose name was Fleming. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the boy from what could have been a slow and terrifying death. The next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the scotsman's sparse surroundings.
An elegantly dressed nobleman stepped out and introduced himself as the father of the boy farmer Fleming had saved. "I want to repay you, "said the nobleman. "Yes," the farmer replied proudly. "I'll make you a deal. Let me take your son and give him a good education. If he's anything like his father, he'll grow to be a man you can be proud of." And that he did. In time, Farmer Fleming's son graduated from St. Mary's Hospital Medical School in London, and went on to become known throughout the world as the noted Sir Alexander Fleming, the discoverer of Penicillin. Years afterward, the nobleman's son was stricken with pneumonia.What saved him? Penicillin. This is not the end.

The nobleman's son also made a great contribution to society. For the nobleman was none other than Lord Randolph Churchill and his son's name was Winston Churchill.

Let us use all our talent, competence and energy for creating peace and happiness for the world."

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"The world we have created is a product of our thinking ; it cannot be changed without changing our thinking".- Einstein

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Indians on World's Best Top 30 CEO's

I just happen to see a headline news yesterday among which an interesting one immediately caught my attention. It reads like this,

"Two Indian steel tycoons -- Ratan Tata of Tata Group and NRI Lakshmi Mittal of global powerhouse Mittal Steel -- have made it to the world's best CEOs list compiled by US stock market weekly Barron's." - Rediff

I really felt the uplift to be proud and happy to see our country men finally making to the list one after another. I know Mittal already made this last year and he is an NRI. He just managed to retains his position now. But "Ratan Tata" just entered this list as anewbie this year.

I guess the world has turned over and watching us more closely than ever before these days. The recent takeovers by these two Steel tycoons really pulled lot of attention worldwide.
Here is the full list with some noticable figures which I can recognize like Warren Buffet, Steven Jobs.

The World's 30 Best CEOs
Name (Company)
1 Warren Buffet (Berkshire Hathaway)

2 Kenneth Chenault (American Express)

3 George David (United Technologies)

4 Charlie Ergen (EchoStar)

5 Larry Fink (BlackRock)

6 Lew Frankfort (Coach)

7 Richard Fuld (Lehman Brothers)

8 Fred Goodwin (Royal Bank of Scotland)

9 Jeffrey Immelt (General Electric)

10 Satoru Iwata (Nintendo)

11 Steven Jobs (Apple)

12 Henning Kagermann (SAP)

13 Richard Kovacevich (Wells Fargo)

14 A G Lafley (Procter & Gamble)

15 Terry Leahy (Tesco)

16 John Mackey (Whole Foods)

17 Lakshmi Mittal (Arcelor Mittal)

18 Allan Moss (Macquaire Bank)

19 Angelo Mozilo (Countrywide Financial)

20 Rupert Murdoch (News Corp)

21 Michael O'Leary (Ryanair Holdings)

22 Franck Ribould (Groupe Danone)

23 Peter Rose (Expeditor International)

24 Steven Roth (Vornado Realty)

25 James Schiro (Zurich Financial)

26 Bob Simpson (XTO Energy)

27 James Sinegal (Costco Wholesale)

28 Fred Smith (FedEx)

29 Ratan Tata (Tata Steel)

30 Jong-Yong Yun (Samsung Electronics)


Mittal, who brought Arcelor last year to make the 3rd largest steel company in the world. Tata also tookover Anglo-Dutch Corus Group(3 times bigger of its size) making the 5th largest steal manufacturer in the world.


Barron's said, adding that these are the 30 leaders who matter and form a group of the world's most indispensable CEOs.


All the 30 have delivered for the shareholders and the share price of all the companies have outperformed the S&P 500 index during the tenure of these leaders at the top position.


I would love to see my name in the list. I am not joking. I know its a long shot. I am an optimist. You should have a dream to reach the moon, by that you will atleast reach the stars..

My Dental Appointment...

Ooh My, Ooh my.. What a weird feeling it was?!! I still couldn't feel a thing in my mouth. Its all numb as a hard brick and seems so different. I feel like my mouth is swollen like Mrs. Doubtfire make up mouth(aavaishanmugi mouth)

Today, it was really a little nervous one for me. It started off really well with morning workout but there was something gonna in the back of my mind.

Its been trying to warn me, "You have a Dental appointment today. There is going to be heavy drilling on your mouth. Its not going to pleasant day".

Actually I was never a penchant to procrastinate things. I always want to get things taken care of immediately and go past it. But when it comes to dental work, I think I am a neophyte and more to say kinda of chicken like anybody else(sorry to include you guys). I been pushing this for too long(more than 9months)and it had to get done now.

I guess I am little nervous but at same time I thought I can do this. So I decided to get it done and fixed the appointment for today.

The man in me tells, "Why do you worry so much, just get it done. You can take that pain". At the same time, I hear a deep kid voice from the corner telling me, " You are afraid aren't you. I know you are."

I took a hour permission and reached the dental office on time for the appointment. I keep telling myself, "Vijai, don't worry. You can do it.. Its not going to hurt bad.."

I was waiting in the room and I hear the assistant voice calling me, "VJ are you ready. Lets go in".

I am like, "Yeah, sure.." That call ticked me off.. My heart beat starting to raise slowly, "lub-DUP ...... lub-DUP ....... lub-DUP ... lub-DUP"

I tried to calm it down by going to the bathroom first and getting to the patient chair. I don't know what to expect.. I never done a dental work in years. I mean years, actually I never done one which I can remember. Its the first time I am ever going to give my mouth for a good drill. (I am pretty good care taker..I guess)

Dr. start to prepare my mouth for some injection. She asked me that "Are you ok with numbing most of your mouth? I have to put too many injections."

I said, "Its ok. Go ahead" (I said to myself, ulla errangiyachu jaan pouna enna mozhum enna) I don't have a big option, its better to do all since I am already in. I asked her with slow voice, "its going to hurt a lot". She is like, "nope I am not going to tell you. You will find out soon"

She is hide something and trying to bring close to my mouth. Its the big injection, I happen to see it finally. A injection with 3-4 inch long needle which I only seen it to used for pets.

I am like "No, no.. Thats going to hurt.." My heart starting to beat fast enough to say STOP, I start to sweat top to bottom and I couldn't control myself. But she just went right ahead and pinched it.. I am like, what.. that wasn't bad..

There is the another one and then the another one.. Totally 3 injections to numb all nerves of the mouth.. I totally didn't expect it.

Alright, they started off to work as soon my mouth is fully out of sense... She kept taking different drills with sharp needles and start to drill away my decay's. She kept asking me to open the mouth full. It such a weird thing that your full mouth is numb and you can't feel a thing. I don't know what the heck I am doing. One point, I even bite her. I couldn't feel a thing except some sensitivity and vibration.

Somehow she got it all figured out and one by one, just completed them drilling and start to fill them up with glues and composites. Then they put a big hair dryer type thig to dry off the glue and composite. Let it dry for a while and finally she gave the touch up to grind the side to make things look better..

After an hour of mechanical work in my mouth. She said "You are all done. It wasn't too bad. You did good. I felt like, "yah thats right. It was pretty ok". I was worried about aftermaths but she said you will be soreness and sensitivity but it won't be too bad..

It wasn't too bad comparing to pulling the teeth out which I think will never opt as an option.. But it was really weird feeling to get dental work done. Do you think I am a chicken or like everybody else when it comes dental work?

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Real Sense of Humor - dare to read it..

Warning: Gals, go easy on me and please have a sense of humor!

Plot: A guy is talking his friend...

I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."

I said, "WHAT??!! What was that?!"

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear...

"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"


Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.


The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store.
I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, "Lets get a
pair for each outfit."

We went on to the jewelry department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you... she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis.

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, "WHAT?"

I then said, "Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.
"You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Lessons from Geese

Mother nature always hide treasures and loads of good things to learn from each and every life on this earth.

Whether its the blue sky above us which show us to be broad minded Or the grass which we step on everyday teaches us to be humble. Whether its the trees around us telling us to be strong and shed shade on others life Or the flowers which blossoms to show us the smiley face is all we want to have a good life.

Everything in this world has purpose and reason to be here to teach something to others. Its upto everyone's to find that treasure or good things and learn from it. On that line, I always wondered why certain birds(geese) flew in certain(V) shape. May be we can learn something from it..



Lessons from Geese



Lessons from Geese


Fact 1

As each goose flaps its wings, it creates an “uplift” for the birds that follow. By flying in a “V” formation, the whole flock has 71% greater flying range than if each bird flew
alone.

Lesson

People who share a common direction and sense of community can get where they are going quicker and easier, because they are traveling on the thrust of each other.

Fact 2

When a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and resistance of flying alone. It quickly moves back into formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird mmediately in front of it.

Lesson

If we have as much sense as a goose, we stay in formation with those headed where we want to go. We are willing to accept their help and give our help to others.

Fact 3

When the lead bird tires, it rotates back into the formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front of it.

Lesson

It pays to take turns doing the hard tasks and sharing leadership. As with geese, people are interdependent on each others' skills, capabilities, and unique arrangement of gifts, talents, or resources.

Fact 4

The geese flying in formation honk to encourage those up front to keep up their speed.

Lesson

We need to make sure our honking is encouraging. In groups where there is encouragement, the production is much greater. The power of encouragement (to stand by one's heart or core values and to encourage the heart and core values of others) is the quality of honking we seek.

Fact 5

When a goose gets sick, wounded, or shot down, two geese drop out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay with it until it dies or is able to fly again. Then, they launch out with another formation to catch up with the flock.

Lesson

If we have as much sense as geese, we will stand by each other in difficult times as well as when we're strong.

I just came across this interesting lesson and I REALLY BELIEVE THAT IT IS TRUE! So I urge every one to look each and every life in this earth in a different way to learn something from it..

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Only in Texas

"Don't mess with Texas" "Longhorn Texas" "Big and Better in Texas"






These are some of the famous slogans of one of the biggest state in America. The current US president also hail from that same state. It looks somewhat similar to India map. Did you guess it yet? I hope so. Its the Cowboy famous Texas.


Texas has played an important role in American history and continue to contribute in large extent in this era too. It has number of famous monuments which represents his past historic contribution like The Alamo, San Jacinto, The State Capitol and so on. Its impossible to tell everything in this blog and also I don't want to bore you in talking about it. I just want to share some thing which I found interesting in Texas expecially about historic Rodeo sport.

We all know America means high sky raise buildings, NASA Space centers, monumental bridges, luxury life and much more. There is also other side with farm lands & Ranches which has past heritage like any other country. I just happen to witness it and got to know a small pie of this long history.
As soon we talk about Cowboys, immediately a movie comes to our mind. "Good, Bad & Ugly". That movie took us to the Wild West and shows little about cowboys and their life. In the 18th, farming was an important household industry in America. Ranchers & Farmers go all around to get a good cows and horses with the help of cowboys.


These American "Cowboys" would often hold informal competitions among themselves and the various different outfits to see which group had the best riders, ropers and all-around best drovers. It would be from these competitions that modern rodeo would eventually be born.


At the same time, other cowboys were supplementing their income at their usual informal competitions, which were now being held in front of paying spectators. Small towns across the frontier would hold annual stock horse shows, known as 'rodeos', or ‘gatherings’. Cowboys would often travel to these gatherings and put on what would be known then as ‘Cowboy Competitions’.

Of these two types of shows only the cowboy competitions would survive. The joining of competition with the gatherings would be the spark for what we now see as RODEO, originally two different aspects of western life joined to become a unique sport.


In Houston(4th largest city in USA and biggest in Texas), LiveStock Show and RODEO takes place every year during this time. Its the 75th year of this famous RODEO show. They start with a big Cook off and runs for month or so. In the show, you can see all the different type of farm animals and their pride owners. The main event is to bring out the excellence of cowboys who risk their lives to ride on the bull. Like our famous Jellikattu in Tamilnadu, this is also one of the dangerous sport.


For fun, there is also competition for big chicken, Goat Milk strawing and so forth. Below are some of the pictues which I happen to collect for you eyes..


Cowboys from all over texas coming to City for the event..

















































Rodeo Show - Cowboys trying to catch the steer. Cowboys trying to ride the wild bull






This is just an essence of this big show. You gotta watch it like Jellikattu to feel it.. Hope I took you all for a small ride with me for the Rodeo Show.

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

FOOT STEPS IN ALL WALKS OF OUR LIFE

The phone starts to ring with a medium tone near the TV. Chaarulatha is watching the Top 10 moves on the SUN TV. The ring just broke her concentration and begged for her attention. Prabhakar is working on the computer over the other room.

She picked up the phone and started talking to someone.
Her face slowly changed from bright to blue and showed the symbol of worry. She immediately called Prabhakar.

'Prabha, Can you come quickly?! It's Reshma. Come and talk to her', a loud voice came from the living room.

With the loud TV sound, after hearing the loud call out from Charu, Mr. Prabhkar stopped typing the keyboard
and asked 'I didn't hear it, Who is on the phone again?'

'Its Reshma, Prabha. Come quick, she doesn't sound good', replied Chaaru. He immediately got up and went to get the phone.


'Hello Reshma Kutti, how are you ma ?'

'I am not ok dad' reply came back in a broken voice from the other end.

'Why do you sound so dull? Is there something going-on, you want to talk to me about ?', Prabhakar kindly asked with parental concern.

'Dad, I am really fedup with my life. Everyday I have to fight with my demon to get an answer why I am in this world. Is it God really exist and watching out for us?'


'Oh, Reshma don't cry my dear. Its all part and parcel of life. GOD is always with us', Prabhakar tried to console her.

'No Dad. Its getting harder and harder every day. If GOD is there, he should have helped me by now. I don't know whether I should be able to take it anymore Dad'. She couldn't hold it anymore and starts to cry out explaining her part of the story breaking out from her silence.


'Oh Reshma. I can feel your pain but I don't know how to make you feel better. Let me tell you a story. I know you are not in a good state but this might help you. Do you want hear me out ?', Prabhakar checked with her kind way.

'Yes, Dad go on. I will try to listen', Reshma replied controlling herself.

"One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the GOD.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the GOD.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him,he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed that many times along the path ofhis life there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened at the verylowest and saddest times in his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the GOD about it: 'LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way.But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life,there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.'

The LORD replied: 'My son, my precious precious child,I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering,when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

'So my dear, GOD is always there in ALL WALKS of our LIFE. Like the story, he carries us during the tough times which we can't handle alone. We won't be able to take on some hard moments. By facing difficult times, he is making us strong and brave. You can do my baby. Pray for the GOD and try to do whatever you do best. I hope this make you feel better', Prabhakar asked with shallow voice.

'Dad, that was really an encouraging nice little story. I feeling little better now. Thank you for your ears. I hope to make it through. Talk you later Dad', Reshma just hang the phone..

Prabhakar felt much better and gone to continue his work.

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Do I believe in luck?

Varun was watching the news and they were annoucing the winner for the mega million lottery which won by a person from Georgia. While he watching it, he remembered those days when he was a kid his dad used to bring home a bunch of lottery tickets with different colors and images.

I even played with them when its of no use. I feel that the short way of getting what you wanted is all about luck.

"Do I believe in luck ?", I don't think so varun told to himself.

Back then, lotteries were sold by different state governments. My father used to get few from our own state(TN) especially on special festival releases which always carried high prize figures and costs more. You only get what you paid for right! But there was always some attractive and famous out of state lotteries from Meghalaya, Assam, Andhara, list never ends. They attracted people with some jazzy posters and juicy prize figures. People always tempted to buy one of them at least to try their luck to win just a 100's.

He would then wait for the drawing dates to see the results. Some lotteries had daily drawing which only carried less prize money. One with monthly or biweekly drawings carried more prize money. He rarely bought daily ones. Since he bought monthly lotteries, he would wait like a "parrot in the cotton tree waiting for the fruit to ripe". On the result day like a student waiting for the exam results, he would first hit the lottery section to see whether he won something.


He always check his numbers listed in low prizes first and he would move on to see the high figure prizes. Just a small longing to win at least a low prize.I wanted to show the lottery but couldn't find the exact image. Anyways, let me try to picture it. Each lottery will have unique number. The way it works is like, lets say you have number "E1353454554". If you see last 2 digit in the result under Rs.20, you won Rs.20. If you see last 4 digit under Rs.100, you won Rs.100. Its goes on like that.


Sometimes he was lucky enough to win a prizes. That's right prizes ranging from just Rs.20 to Rs.100 and sometimes he would have missed big prizes in just single or double figures. But most of time, he never won any penny. He almost lost all the time. I never known anybody who I won big prizes in the lottery. So I always wondered whether its all a big setup like any other business drawings. My father use to convince me in a way of convincing himself by saying, NO its legitimate and government under sees the directly. They won't cheat or deceive the people. I just listened to him like every other kid. But my small mind said that its all some sort of magic and never believe in it.

Its almost 17-18years now. They just recently vanished the lottery system in TamilNadu and other states (good thing!!) because it totally destroyed lots of poor and middle class families. And after been thru some rollercoaster ride in my own life, I had learnt some good lessons. It always taught me that LUCK is just a gimmick like a greeting card with happiness short lived.


My Mantra, Do what you do best and keep doing it. Hard work never fails. I don't think I ever will knowingly spend money to get more money without breaking a sweat. I always thought whatever gets to you free always finds the other way out. That's a true statement from a person who has a real proof .


Every other Friday, we used to go to the super market to buy groceries. One day, when we got back home and I was cross checking the items with the bills. I would see some items got missed out and not paid. Its mostly heavy small prized items like canned water which we slide under the shopping basket and forgot to bill them. I wonder those store code detectors ever work on small prized items. At that time, I used to think, OK! we got something free without paying it (accident happens!).


Next time, when we went to the grocery shopping in spite of me closely watching the cashier, I would see the bills having double entry for same item. I just paid it back what got free last time Nowadays, whenever it happens again, I always think when its going to go out of my pocket. I have few other interesting incidents happen to me like this one.

My take, I don't ever just believe in luck and wait for something to happen and I never will! I am true believer of hard work and leave it up to God, it always pay off big returns. Some might argue that luck is another face of gods love. That's totally a different topic altogether and I am not going talk about..

Varun suddenly got back from his self realization tour when he heard a high volume advertisement popped in between the news..
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Tough Sport - Limca Record by 4year old !!!

This is the sequel Part II of my previous post about the "Tough Sport". For the benefit of all, I am just going to recap some thoughts from my previous post.

Running Marathon is a one of the Toughest sport. One needs to have commitment and will power to take up the challenge and give unprecedented amount of effort in order to run 26.2 miles in one stretch. It might be a tough sport but its not an impossible sport. If you want to read the previous post fully, Jump to Tough Sport - Unrevealed to check it out.

Believe it or not, this tough sport is being mastered by a 4 year old. Yeah, that's right! I can't even believe my eyes when I saw the news in the web. It got more interesting when I read the news more to find that the boy is from India.
Actually, Budhia Singh — 4-year-old from India as a slum resident from the eastern state of Orissa dubbed “Marathon Boy” and “India’s Forrest Gump” — did not run just a marathon. He ran farther… much farther. In fact, perhaps enough to set a world record for a kid: 40 miles! Just as impressive was his time: 7 hours and 2 minutes.

Officials of Limca Book of Records, India's best-known record book, witnessed the run and said it would be included in its 2007 edition, the Press Trust of India news agency reported.
Budhia Singh completed the distance in seven hours and two minutes which is an Indian record. This is perhaps a world record too. No other kid at his age has completed a distance of 65 kilometers (40 miles) at one go," said his coach, Biranchi Das.

Despite just being 4 years old, the kid already has some interesting stories. When his father died his mother could not afford to raise him so she sold him off for $20. He then was put under the watch of (or possibly “rescued”by) a judo master who “discovered” the boy’s incredible stamina when, for punishment, he told the boy to run and 5 hours later — when the judo master returned — the boy was still running. The judo master then started him on a training regimen including running in the morning, having a siesta in the early afternoon, and then running again in the evening. He also switched him over to a diet of eggs, milk, soybean, and meat.

In place of a few lumps of rice that he used to get at his mother's place, he now has a diet of eggs, milk, soybean and meat. He starts running at 5am each day and does not stop till noon. After a few stretching exercises, he has lunch and goes for a siesta. At 4pm it is time to run again. Budhia is enjoying his stay at the judo hostel. "I can run and eat to my heart's content here," he says.

Budhia's coach has now set his eyes on a place in the Guinness Book of World Records.
That, he says, will be possible when he can run for 90km at a stretch."I have no doubt whatsoever that he will achieve it soon", Mr Das says.

What this 4year old accomplished was an unthinkable achievement. I couldn't even imagine my son(8months) doing it when he is at 4 years. For some, sports come naturally but it doesn't mean that others doesn't have chance or can't try to excel it.

For my part, I did try one or 2 half marathons and 1 marathon. I am proud to say that I was able to complete them successfully with some good timings. Because completing a marathon itself is a great accomplishment. I am also happy to invoke interest among some of my coworkers to try out this tough sport. There is so much to talk about this Tough sport and I am not done yet. Please look out for my final post of this sequel with some How to's and What to's.

Sunday, March 4, 2007

Daylight Saving Time - Useful or Confusing ?!

It was the last sunday of october of last year when I went with my wife to watch a movie at the dollar theatre. We were planning to go to 3.30pm show so we went to the pizza buffet place for late lunch before the movie and we headed to the theatre around 3pm after some window shopping. We got our tickets and waited for the the previous show to get over so we can go inside.

It was almost 3:25pm in my watch and we thought may the ticket counter guy didn't know we are waiting so we headed inside the theatre. The movie is already running. I got frustrated and went to the ticket counter and asked. We been waiting for almost 20mins and you didn't tell us that movie started. He said the previous show is still running and its only 2:30pm and you have another one hour for the next show. What ?!! Yep, its 2:30pm and time change today. I was really embarrassed. Anyway, we went for another round of window shopping for 45 more mins and got back for the show on time.

I came to know about this Daylight saving time when I first landed in Boston during Feb month. After a month, I was told to change my time ahead and I was totally confused inspite of the already confusing different time zones in USA. A Guy who landed from a country which follows on time zone all around and one time all year around. Its definitely damn confusing.It gets more worse when you are traveling around the world and hitting different part of the world who follows different day light saving schedules.
I was like what the heck they are doing?! They have different time zones to start with and they change the time every year which I never done in my life time. I felt that these guys are stupid to change the time without realizing the total benefit. Its a real teaser sometimes if you are not upto-date on the local happenings. It took me a while to get it researched and get it synced in.
This is the second time its happening for me. It happened to me once in 2001 when I went to the dance program 1hr late thinking its still 8pm but it was actually 9pm DST. Is this Daylight saving time really useful or just confuses people and sometimes make them feel embarrassed?!!
Looks like the main purpose of Daylight Saving Time (called "Summer Time" in many places in the world) is to make better use of daylight. We change our clocks during the summer months to move an hour of daylight from the morning to the evening. Daylight Saving Time gives us the opportunity to enjoy sunny summer evenings by moving our clocks an hour forward in the spring. Just as sunflowers turn their heads to catch every sunbeam, so too have we discovered a simple way to get more from our sun.
OK!! Then why was it not practised in india?! It seems that if you live near the equator, day and night are nearly the same length (12 hours). But elsewhere on Earth, there is much more daylight in the summer than in the winter. The closer you live to the North or South Pole, the longer the period of daylight in the summer. Thus, Daylight Saving Time (Summer Time) is usually not helpful in the tropics, and countries near the equator generally do not change their clocks. That seems to be logical.

The idea of daylight saving was first conceived by Benjamin Franklin (portrait at right) during his sojourn as an American delegate in Paris in 1784, in an essay, "An Economical Project." But they actually started following in the World War I all over the world. There were lots of confusions on when to set the time ahead and how to set for a state which has different time zones. There were lots of acts passed during the period 1966 to 1972. Finally, In 1972, Congress revised the law to provide that, if a state was in two or more time zones, the state could exempt the part of the state that was in one time zone while providing that the part of the state in a different time zone would observe Daylight Saving Time.
The Federal law was amended in 1986 to begin Daylight Saving Time on the first Sunday in April. Under legislation enacted in 1986, Daylight Saving Time in the U.S. began at 2:00 a.m. on the first Sunday of April and ended at 2:00 a.m. on the last Sunday of October.
On August 8, 2005, President George W. Bush signed the Energy Policy Act of 2005. This Act changed the time change dates for Daylight Saving Time in the U.S. Beginning in 2007, DST will begin on the second Sunday in March and end the first Sunday in November.

So beginning in 2007, most of the United States begins Daylight Saving Time at 2:00 a.m. on the second Sunday in March and reverts to standard time on the first Sunday in November. In the U.S., each time zone switches at a different time. In the European Union, Summer Time begins and ends at 1:00 a.m. Universal Time (Greenwich Mean Time). It begins the last Sunday in March and ends the last Sunday in October. In the EU, all time zones change at the same moment.
I think Daylight Saving time has its own advantages in regard to more sunlight, energy savings and much more. But it is confusing at times until you get used to the routine life and keep updated with local happenings to avoid any embarrassment.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

A Tough Sport - Unrevealed

It may be easy to be a cricketer as you are one among 11 players in the game. You either contribute as batsmen or bowler and very rarely an all-rounder. You are only the part of the team success. Similarly, any team sport is not too difficult to be part of as every individual is just the part of the success.

Let’s take some individual sports like swimming, weight lifting, boxing or tennis. It may be little tough as you are playing in the play field alone by yourself, putting everything you have to win the competition or game. It is tough at times depending on the opponent and field you are playing. I am not under-estimating any sport so don't go defensive on me. I know every sport has its own tough times. But speaking from my experience, out of all these sports there is one sport which takes a toll out of a person both physically and mentally.


It takes one extraordinary person to run a marathon (Triathlons are extreme) which is the one of the toughest sport in the earth today. Every marathoner has to battle blisters and blistering heat or freezing cold, extreme altitudes and draining humidity. This sport needs every bit of a person to be fully dedicated and committed in order your to accomplish success.
If you are still not convinced, let’s analyze some facts and do a comparison.


Sport - Time Played - Breaks -Effort

Cricket -3hrs -One session every 17overs(1 1/2 hrs) - Team Effort

Soccer- 45mins -one session every(45 mins) - Team Effort

Tennis- 2to3 hrs max - every 5 games(15-30mins)- Full Effort

Swimming- 10to30mins max - no break - Full Effort

200 meters Run - 4-5mins -no break - Full Effort

Marathon - 2to3hrs - no break- Full Effort


Above all Marathon stands out as the sole sport which doesn't have any break and need your full effort for minimum 2-3 hrs if you are an average runner. If you take a break, you can't win. You can take a break but you won't be there on the finish line on time.

Rosalynn Carter once said, You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.”This quotes suits well for this sport. Without your confidence throughout the run, it’s tough to run a marathon. You have to battle against your mind and heart. Mind will say "why are you running too long and hard, your legs are already hurting so just stop it". You heart will say, "You are going to achieve something good so just keep running. Only think about the finish line". It’s a constant struggle and the person has to divert the mind all the way to the finish line since you are on your own. It’s not a game to be entertained; it’s a lonely sport to be conquered.

To Run a marathon which is a distance of 26.2 miles = 34.5 km with a clean and steady phase, it needs total commitment, vigorous practice, Persistence and Perseverance. Without all to these, it’s hard to imagine running one. Because this sport needs total unprecedented amount of effort from a person, not many people seems to be interested and not very popular among ordinary people in India.

When I searched Google or any search engine for "Marathons India", I can easily count them in figures. First, it all seems to have started only few years (5-7 years) ago. Secondly it only happens in metro cities like Bangalore, Chennai, Mumbai, and Kolkata & Delhi for more advertisement and sponsorships to make money. Finally, only 20% of them finish them. Let’s look at the Mumbai marathon which just completed last Jan 21st, 2007. If you look closely at Indian finishers, they are either from Indian Army or Navy or national Olympic runners.

If you search "Marathon USA", you will see every other city hosts the Marathons as per their weather conditions. Also the finishers are way more than 75% out of more than 15,000 participants. Among them a very good percentage 60-70% are ordinary individuals.

Our people are immediately ready to defend us saying that we don't have proper coaches, no good training facilities like USA and try to cover-up the actual fact that there are no volunteers strong enough to take up the challenge offered by this tough sport.

I like to tell a naked truth. Atleast 1 out of 3 top finishers in all marathons taking place all over the world are either from Kenya or Ethiopia. These people are from real poor countries which doesn't even have enough everyday food and shelter. I don’t think they have facilities to train and actually most of the people are under poverty line. How come they can do it? Because of their poverty level, they don't have transportation facilities and have to run or walk at least 7-10 miles every day to go to their schools from the child age. Since they been running barefoot every day under hot sun, their body is tuned to take on tough sport. Once they get sponsorships, they train well and participate in big marathons and take away big prizes like $15,000 to their home.

It’s good that marathons are slowly getting popular in India but the fact is not many finishers and they are giving up in the middle. There are committing themselves to run full one. If there is not many finishers, then the marathon is a total failure. There are many reasons to it. The important reason being awareness among people about marathons. They just run for the sake of it. Also people have wrong perception that Marathons can't be run easily and it’s tough to do it. That may be true but if a person train him properly either from the teen age or from 20's it’s really possible to win. If you don't have to run to win, you can at least complete reasonably which is a great accomplishment. It’s also doesn't need special facilities or special equipment. It only needs you and your commitment and will power with some good pair of shoes. That all it needs.

I believe that nothing is impossible under the sun and above the earth. The word impossible itself says I'M POSSIBLE.

I am not just a critic like some newspaper Journalist who can just write about anything. I am just a optimistic and practical person. I also want to do justice to my readers. For my part I have done couple of half marathons and a marathon. I am going to talk more about how to run marathons and also revealing a most astonishing story about a 4year who ran long runs and marathons. If he can do it, you can do it too :-)